On 2006-01-18, Blankshield wrote:
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Hmm. In regards to the last few comments on this thread... My take on IWNAY is that it's not just about "I will push your buttons" It also includes a very important bit, at the end of Meg's definition above, which is "and play through the issue." Now, I might be projecting here, but I completely understand that to mean: Not only will I go to those places, and push those buttons, and make sure I don't back off or wimp out, but - BUT - I will also follow through to the end, and stick with you until we're all back out of that territory and on stable ground again. And on that whole parent/spouse=IWNAY? YES. Or at least, if it's a healthy relationship. James |
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